Lately a lot of my friends have been having serious problems-mostly relationship wise. They have als been look to me for guidance and advice. Normally this would not be a problem except for 2 things: It all seems to be happening at once which makes it kinda hard to deal with, and it seems to effecting me in a strange way. I end up fighting with my fiance more often when I am trying to help someone else out in their relationship, which is weird because we rarely fight otherwise. My theory on this happens though is this: mostly, it's my female friends complaining about things that women typically find terrible and annoying in the opposite sex. Translation? Thinking about things that guys do that are annoying/hurtful to women gets on ym nerves and I subcnsciously look for those habits and blow them out of proportion (whether or not they are actually present) with my fiance. I think that maye the next time one of my friends needs relationship advice, I'll just hand them a counselors card. And I also owe my fiance an odd apology. And maybe I should take a mental health day, ha ha. But, out of curiousity, had anybody ever had something similar happen to them? Or am I the only lonely werido out there? |